James Lyd*'s Departure

I am not in the habit of speculating as to the feelings of others; but I’m willing to bet that tonight’s email from James Lyd* meant a great deal more to some of us than it did to the rest.

Understandably, people tend not to say much about their visits with Dr. Lyd*. The walk to 362 Boalt is often, by design, an inconspicuous one. But it is important that the Boalt Community recognize the role that Dr. Lyd* plays, as both a counselor and a friend to so many.

I don’t know how quickly the administration plans to replace Dr. Lyd* - but I hope that when they do, it is with someone who is equally supportive, sincere and free of judgment.

That in mind, a quote from Mr. Rogers:

“Part of the problem with the word disabilities is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can't feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren't able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”